Grounding Techniques are designed to help you deal with painful, overwhelming feelings. Grounding can be done anytime anyplace, anywhere. You can practice the skills privately and no one has to know or you can ask for support. Do not focus on past or the future stay in the present. Do not judge things as bad or good, stay neutral. Do not journal or think negative thoughts.
Ways to Ground yourself
Find a special place in your home where you have placed safe, soothing objects.
Play a category game with yourself, ie think of types of dogs, bands from the 80s, 90s, types of cars, etc.
Describe an everyday activity in detail to yourself or to someone else.
Say an affirmation.
Read something positive saying each word to yourself.
Think of something funny.
Count to 10 or say the alphabet S l o w l y
Run cool or warm water or your hands.
Hold ice cubes in your hands.
Carry a safety object with you.
Connect your body with the environment, ie I feel my feet making contact with the floor.
Eat, Walk mindfully– noticing the subtleties of the activity.
Focus on your breathing and accompany a positive, pleasant word with each inhalation and exhalation.
Say kind statements to your self.
Think of all your favourites, ie colour, food, animals, season, TV show.
Say a positive coping statement ie, this will pass, I can handle this.
Think of positive things that you are looking forward to in the future, ie social outing with a friend.
Make an index card or upload your most effective grounding techniques.
Think about people and animals you care about. Look at photographs of them.
List 5 things you see
List 4 things that you can touch
List 2 things that you can smell
Take one breath.