Helping the Homeless
And getting over the stereotypes
(See bottom of post for useful links and statistics for Halton and GTA areas)
♥ I can understand a person’s fear when it comes to the homeless, because I’ve been afraid too. When I first moved to the GTA area, I was full of assumptions and stereotypes about homeless people being dirty, crazy, alcoholic, drug users and all ex-murderers. That was not progressive nor productive. It made me afraid and avoidant of my favourite hang out spots, and it wasn’t helpful to others because I was too afraid to help.
Alternatives and a new outlook
♥ The truth was, I didn’t know and I still don’t know why a certain person is homeless. Back then, I needed to find some alternative reasons for homelessness. Here are a few: A severe mental illness, poverty, identity theft, new refugees, house fire with no or little insurance and no family, avoiding deportation to an unsafe homeland, a run away from an abusive home or foster family, previously committed a minor offense and are without support. The list goes on. I eventually decided to stop over analyzing ‘WHY?’. My newer motto is that if someone needs help, help.. and that kindness and compassion does not need questions answered.
Cash Donation Alternatives
♥ Cash isn’t the only way to assist someone. We can offer our time with a local organization, donate clothing and other needed goods to a local shelter or charity (Call ahead and ask what they need). We can also directly offer someone items such as a bottle of water, beef jerky, umbrella, or winter gloves, gift cards (for a store in the area- otherwise, how will they get there?) transit day pass, etc. We can also offer to buy them lunch, or ask them what they need. Offer to wash their bedding or replace them with clean ones. Ask if they would like a care package. Ask them what they need.
Equality and Compassion
♥ Ask them what they need. Do NOT allow the mindset that people in need are second-class citizens who should be more than grateful for anything you give them. Do not allow negative perceptions that this person whom you’re trying to help cannot be in need if they aren’t going to take anything and everything. Do not let your motto be “Beggars cannot be Choosers”. Like us, they have preferences, personality, rights and dignity. They are our equals who are in need of assistance as we all need help sometimes. They’ve also been through their own personal struggles so be mindful of that.
♥ “Hey, I don’t have any change/cash, but can I’ll buy you lunch (on debit). Is Subway okay? What kind of sandwich would you like?”
♥ “Your shoes are falling apart, my friend. If you’d like, tell me your shoe size and I can get you some newer ones.”
♥ “I’ve got an extra umbrella, bottle of water and a few extra pairs of socks that may fit you. Do you need any of these?”
♥♥ Note: For safety -I never offer and rarely allow a person to accompany me to a store. After all, they are still strangers. I never approach anyone I feel may be dangerous or physically harm me, nor do I travel down any dangerous or unknown routes in search of someone in need. As the old saying goes, ‘Safety First.’ ♥♥
Halton and Peel Region
♥If you are in the Halton Area (Ontario) and you need Emergency housing, please dial 311 and ask for emergency housing options. Click here
♥Apply for Social housing in the Peel region. Click here
♥Read Peel Regions Housing and Homeless Plan. Click here
♥Apply for housing in Toronto. Click here
♥Finding Solutions for Homeless (Canada). Click here
♥Toronto’s Homeless Twitter Page. Click here
♥ Toronto’s City Homeless Shelter. Click here
♥ Toronto City’s Guide for Homeless. Click here
♥Toronto’s Covenant House (Shelter). Click here
♥Toronto’s Red Door Family Shelter. Click here
♥1st Stop Woodlawn Shelter for Women. Click here